Connie if you read this I want you to know that I absolutely do understand your situation. I did not see my father for the two years prior to his death due due to big time abuse. I had not seen him since 1990 he died in 92 no one in my family offered to help me with plane fare to go to the funeral and I didn't have the plane fare but the truth was I didn't want to go anyhow.
I also didn't see mommy dearest since 1990 apparently she died in 2011 I didn't even find out until 2013 I also did not shed a tear due to abuse
