After I poasted the "letter from birthmother" i realized that after she wrote "love, mother" she write another page.
Here it is:
"I am the last person on earth who could be considered a "golddigger" That ASSHOLE (she is reffering to father) never did anything for me.
Things are different these days with dna testing; he WOULD have been held accountable!
I've been a people pleaser TOO DAMN LONG.
My battle now is just trying to survive my very difficult situation and health issues. Good luck with yours.
Your father is:
hateful and vindictive. He has tried to destroy me. THE nicer I AM to people the more I am taken advantage of.
In an attempt to exclude himself from any responsbililty, he has sullied my reputation in order to get himself off the hook.
I PROMISE: NO MORE LETTERS MENTIONING YOUR FATHER! I am on my way out of this cruel world and will not conform to what anyone else wants me to be.
IT IS WHAT IT IS!
The nicer i am to people the more i get shit on and taken advantage of.